Client Update
Before this client entered MBUH Shelter, she had suffered through the tragic loss of her youngest daughter, witnessed her husband’s murder, and went through unimaginable DV. She also had a felony record, was chronically homeless, and struggled with substance abuse. She had just graduated a 180-day in-patient Drug and Alcohol Rehabilitation Program prior to entering our DV Program. That’s where the glimmer of hope started shining. With Unity Home, client celebrated 200 days of sobriety, and worked through her past to move forward in healing. She shared that the most difficult part of that time was trying to heal the strained relationship with her daughter. She wanted nothing more than to be the mom (and now grandma) she wished she would have been years ago. Client graduated Shelter Program in September, and with assistance from her Case Manager, she was accepted into a 1-year Transitional Housing program in San Diego. With hard work, a healthy mindset, and a whole lot of self-love and family support, this client is now graduating early from that Program! She was given the honor of speaking at the ceremony and has a job, housing, and a forward-focused plan lined up once she graduates. This client is a beautiful example of resilience, true strength, and how the bravery of asking for help, can truly transform your life!
Myths Vs. Fact
MYTH: Domestic violence is rare.
FACT: Domestic violence affects 1 out of 4 women at some point during her lifetime. Men can also be victims of domestic violence, but women make up about 97% of domestic violence survivors. Domestic violence happens equally in heterosexual and homosexual relationships.
MYTH: When batterers are violent, it is because they “lost their temper,” and not because they meant to hurt their partner.
FACT: Batterers use violence because it helps them gain and maintain power and control, not because they lose control of their emotions.
MYTH: Drinking and/or drug abuse cause battering.
FACT: There seems to be a correlation between alcohol and battering. Although alcohol abuse may increase the likelihood of violent behavior, it does not cause or excuse it.
MYTH: Victims have done something to cause the abuse.
FACT: Abusers choose their actions. Abuse is NEVER the fault of the victim.
Safety Tip
Check your social media to make sure your privacy settings are strict. Phone numbers, addresses, handles, and personal details may make it easier for someone to reach you. Similarly, don't post information about people without their consent - you could jeopardize their safety or the safety of others.
Statistics
Over the past quarter, Unity Home was able to provide support to over 250 Hotline callers and in-person services to over 100 people. Additionally, Unity Home provided over 257 counselling hours, conducted 138 classes at our Outreach office and assisted with 8 restraining orders. We are dedicated to putting client’s first, assisting however possible and whenever we can.
Volunteer Of The Year
Unity Home recognizes Arlene Bobier as a partner in empowering and strengthening victims of domestic violence into survivors, living a life free from the fear of abuse. She will be dearly missed by advocates, volunteers, and clients alike.
Supporter Shoutout
Unity Home would like to send a HUGE THANK YOU to Z107.7FM for their continued support of MBUH Inc. Domestic Violence Services and Thrift Store. We are so appreciative of all that you guys do!
ADVOCATE SHOUT-OUT
MISS HANNA is recognized this Quarter for her amazing initiative, and passion for our clients. Miss Hanna exhibits expertise AND a strong desire for client success as a Case Manager for Unity Home by consistently placing client needs and goals as a top priority! WAY TO GO MISS HANNA!
Before this client entered MBUH Shelter, she had suffered through the tragic loss of her youngest daughter, witnessed her husband’s murder, and went through unimaginable DV. She also had a felony record, was chronically homeless, and struggled with substance abuse. She had just graduated a 180-day in-patient Drug and Alcohol Rehabilitation Program prior to entering our DV Program. That’s where the glimmer of hope started shining. With Unity Home, client celebrated 200 days of sobriety, and worked through her past to move forward in healing. She shared that the most difficult part of that time was trying to heal the strained relationship with her daughter. She wanted nothing more than to be the mom (and now grandma) she wished she would have been years ago. Client graduated Shelter Program in September, and with assistance from her Case Manager, she was accepted into a 1-year Transitional Housing program in San Diego. With hard work, a healthy mindset, and a whole lot of self-love and family support, this client is now graduating early from that Program! She was given the honor of speaking at the ceremony and has a job, housing, and a forward-focused plan lined up once she graduates. This client is a beautiful example of resilience, true strength, and how the bravery of asking for help, can truly transform your life!
Myths Vs. Fact
MYTH: Domestic violence is rare.
FACT: Domestic violence affects 1 out of 4 women at some point during her lifetime. Men can also be victims of domestic violence, but women make up about 97% of domestic violence survivors. Domestic violence happens equally in heterosexual and homosexual relationships.
MYTH: When batterers are violent, it is because they “lost their temper,” and not because they meant to hurt their partner.
FACT: Batterers use violence because it helps them gain and maintain power and control, not because they lose control of their emotions.
MYTH: Drinking and/or drug abuse cause battering.
FACT: There seems to be a correlation between alcohol and battering. Although alcohol abuse may increase the likelihood of violent behavior, it does not cause or excuse it.
MYTH: Victims have done something to cause the abuse.
FACT: Abusers choose their actions. Abuse is NEVER the fault of the victim.
Safety Tip
Check your social media to make sure your privacy settings are strict. Phone numbers, addresses, handles, and personal details may make it easier for someone to reach you. Similarly, don't post information about people without their consent - you could jeopardize their safety or the safety of others.
Statistics
Over the past quarter, Unity Home was able to provide support to over 250 Hotline callers and in-person services to over 100 people. Additionally, Unity Home provided over 257 counselling hours, conducted 138 classes at our Outreach office and assisted with 8 restraining orders. We are dedicated to putting client’s first, assisting however possible and whenever we can.
Volunteer Of The Year
Unity Home recognizes Arlene Bobier as a partner in empowering and strengthening victims of domestic violence into survivors, living a life free from the fear of abuse. She will be dearly missed by advocates, volunteers, and clients alike.
Supporter Shoutout
Unity Home would like to send a HUGE THANK YOU to Z107.7FM for their continued support of MBUH Inc. Domestic Violence Services and Thrift Store. We are so appreciative of all that you guys do!
ADVOCATE SHOUT-OUT
MISS HANNA is recognized this Quarter for her amazing initiative, and passion for our clients. Miss Hanna exhibits expertise AND a strong desire for client success as a Case Manager for Unity Home by consistently placing client needs and goals as a top priority! WAY TO GO MISS HANNA!
